Ryan Hairston Recovery Updates

2/13/06 Update

Hello! Again, I want to say thank you for all of your prayers and your support. I can not begin to tell how blessed Laura and I are by you.

The Lord is so good and has been so good to me. This last week was my first week of physical therapy. It was so good to get out of the house and to actually do some physical activity. The first day wasn't so bad but the other two times were really tough. My therapist tells me consistantly, "No Pain, No Gain." Needless to say I am pretty sore. My therapist thinks I am doing really good though. I am now out of the wheel chair and am walking with a walker. The first time I stood up I coudn't believe I was so tall.

I will keep doing therapy for another 4-5 weeks. Everything else in me seems to be slowly getting better. Sometimes I get frustrated that I am not well yet, but I just have to remember it will take time.

Please keep praying for us both. Laura has been absolutely amazing during this time!!! She is such a blessing to me but sometimes it can be hard not having a whole lot of time for herself. Please pray for her in this way. Please pray that Lord will continue to heal and restore me. Along with that, you can pray that the Lord will help us get back to somewhat of a normal life. Thanks for all that you have done; the cards, phone calls, and prayers have been so encouraging.

I will leave with one verse that I love; I say it every night as I go to sleep.

"Be at rest once more, O my soul, for the LORD has been good to you."

Psalm 116:7

Talk to you in a week!!!!!

Ryan

2/3/06 Update

"It has been an exciting few days. It all began on Thursday at Ryan's first day of physical therapy. With tears of gladness in my eyes, I saw Ryan walk using a walker for the first time. He walked for about 5 minutes or so. It was such an amazing picture of God's faithfulness. Ryan is looking forward to rehab and is ready to work hard. Right after his appointment he called my Mema Ann and told her, "Let me know when you want to race me on your walker." The funny thing is that he will actually be borrowing her walker for a few weeks before beginning to use crutches :) Thanks Mema!

Ryan and I were searching for verses on patience, endurance, and perseverance and we came upon James 5:11, "As you know, we consider blessed those who have persevered. You have heard of Job's perseverance and have seen what the Lord finally brought about. The Lord is full of compassion and mercy." God has already showed his compassion and mercy in so many ways in the past few months. Please pray that Ryan would continue to have a great outlook on rehab. Pray that he would not get too frustrated, but that God would continue giving him endurance and patience to handle this time of his life. It can definitely be used as a great sermon analogy! See...something good is coming out of this :) We are reminded of Romans 5:3-5, "Not only so, but we also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not disappoint us, because God has poured out his love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit, whom he has given us."

Thank you all for everything. We are so blessed to have you all in our lives."

Laura

2/1/06 Update

It feels like it's been a while since I have updated you on Ryan. Life has just been busy and crazy around the Hairston home, but it has all been great!

On Monday morning we went to see the retina specialist. He said Ryan's eyesight was progressing, and he feels in a month, it will continue getting better. Ryan was even able to head over to staff meeting for a bit. That was a great moment because he was able to feel "apart" again. It really blessed him. Yesterday (Tuesday), Ryan got the screws out of his right foot. It was the coolest thing! I couldn't even believe how long they actually were...at least 4 inches! They just pulled those suckers out with regular ol' pliers! Can you believe it?!? It was a little painful for Ryan, but he's so tough and made it through with flying colors. Right before we left the office, he actually stood on both legs, while holding onto my shoulders, of course, for a few seconds. It was an amazing reminder of how far God has brought Ryan, and how faithful He truly is. He continues to strengthen him daily through our prayers and the prayers of His children. Tomorrow (Thursday) we will be having a consultation to begin rehab. I cannot believe we're finally at this point in our journey. We still have a ways to go, but I know God will continue to carry us each step of the way.

I had the chance to be part of a women's retreat beginning last night and ending this afternoon. It was such a refreshment to be surrounded by women who truly love the Lord, continue encouraging me to do the same. The phrase that imprinted my heart last night was, "I can't, but HE can". That really spoke volumes to me because, lately, the past few days I have felt very worn and tired. I have tried to do a lot on my own strength. God has shown me so much each day about new mercies and His faithfulness, but until today have I truly grasped what it means for HIM to carry my burden. I would be lying to you if I said that everything is normal, fine and dandy, and we're just living happily ever after. We're tired, some days stressed, wondering if we're going to make it until tomorrow, but by God's grace, we do! Matthew 11:28-30 says, "Come to Me, all who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and YOU WILL FIND REST FOR YOUR SOULS. For My yoke is easy and My burden is light." What an amazing promise! He did not say, "you MIGHT find rest" or "it's a POSSIBILITY you'll find rest", but YOU WILL. I just read this: "We often think of a yoke as a burden, but really a yoke is a very useful tool, one which enables one to carry a burden greater than one could normally carry. When we take up the yoke of Christ, we are enabled to carry burdens that would otherwise weigh us down and destroy us." By nature, I know I have said it before, I tend to be a control-freak! It is hard for me to release and let go of control in alot of areas of my life. But learning the hard way, I have found out the times I am worn out and weary, are due to my lack of release in life. I just encourage you to daily take up His yoke and find His rest. That's what I will have to do daily.

Thank you for all your prayers, encouragement, and even gifts! You are way too much :) We are so blessed by all of you.

Finding Rest,
Laura

1/27/06 Update

Today Ryan received the blood test results from the hematologist. They all came back negative! Another prayer answered! We will meet once again with the retina specialist Monday morning. This is a follow-up appointment from last week. Don't worry...we'll give you the results!

This afternoon, Ryan and I had a chance to get out of the house for a bit, and it wasn't for a doctor's appointment! We went to the early showing of Glory Road. Great movie if you have not had the chance to see it. It was a nice change of scenery. Ryan was pretty beat afterwards, but it was great for him to see more than just our apartment or the inside of a doctor's office. Thank you for all your prayers. We are hoping to have another relaxing weekend.

I received a few verses today that were a true blessing to Ryan and I both. First, was Psalm 66 which we were told has become the "Hairston song". If you have a moment, open your Bible and read it. I hope it blesses you as much as it did us. It is the testimony of our lives. Next was Isaiah 30:19-21 (amplified version)--"O people who dwell in Zion at Jerusalem (O Ryan and Laura, whom I love and dwells with me), you will weep no more. He will surely be gracious to you at the sound of your cry; when He hears it, He will answer you. And though the Lord gives you the bread of adversity and the water of affliction, yet your Teacher will not hide Himself any more, but your eyes will constantly behold your Teacher. And your ears will hear a word behind you, saying, this is the way; walk in it, when you turn to the right hand and when you turn to the left."

Hope you all have a blessed weekend.

Beholding the Teacher,
Laura

1/26/06 Update

Today, Ryan and I were given a song (thanks Gayla). It moved me to tears. It reminds me of the verse (given to me in the hospital by our pastor, Paul), Habakkuk 3:17-19, "Even though the fig trees have no blossoms, and there are no grapes on the vine; even though the olive crop fails, and the fields lie empty and barren; even though the flocks die in the fields, and the cattle barns are empty, yet I will rejoice in the LORD! I will be joyful in the God of my salvation. The Sovereign LORD is my strength! He will make me as surefooted as a deer and bring me safely over the mountains." My prayer for today, even through a hard, difficult day, we will all find a way to praise the Lord. Always giving thanks to the Father for everything. I hope this song is an encouragement to you. It is called, "Yet I Will Praise" by Andy Park.

I will praise you, Lord my God
Even in my brokeness
I will praise you Lord
I will praise you, Lord my God
Even in my desperation
I will praise you Lord

And I can´t understand
All that you allow
I just can´t see the reason
but my life is in your hands
and through I cannot see you
I choose to trust you

Even when my hearts is torn
I will trust you Lord
Even when I feel deserted
I will trust you Lord

Even in the darkest valley
I will trust you Lord
and when it seems all hope is gone
yet I will praise you Lord

I will trust you Lord my God
Even in my loneliness
I will trust you Lord

And I will not forget
that you hung on a cross
Lord you bled and died for me
and if I have to suffer
I know that you´ve been there
and I know that you´re here now

Still praising and trusting,
Laura

1/25/06 Update

Today Ryan and I went to see the neuroopthamologist. It was a long visit that ended very well. Ryan was told that he now only has 2 clots, which was 5 before, and he has a hemmorrhage in his left eye. The doctor was not too concerned with the hemorrhage. He just thought in time it would dissolve.

So, thank you for your prayers. God has heard and answered! Tonight, I had a highschool girls biblestudy. We talked about the "storms" in our lives. Those times when it rains and we know nothing else to do except cry out. Does God hear? Is He listening? And I can say with assurance, "YES". God has truly carried us and held us close through this whole experience. It says in Deuteronomy 1:31, "There you saw how the Lord your God carried you, as a father carries his son, all the way you went until you reached this place." As we processed that picture a bit tonight, I asked the girls this question, "When you're going through really hard times and everything seems hopeless, do you still trust that God knows the way and that you're going to make it through?" Before this whole experience, I don't know if I could have said yes with confidence. Now, I know that God is always closer, carrying us every step of the way, even when we believe we cannot take another step. I know whom I have believed and am persuaded that He is able!

Laura

1/24/06 Update

Hey Everyone,

I decided to relieve my amazing wife (and I mean amazing) today so that I could extend my thanks and appreciation to all of you. I can not even put into words how grateful I am for all of you. God is an amazing God who hears the cries of His people and that, along with God’s great mercy and undying love, is why I am here today. So from the bottom of my heart, thank you all for absolutely everything!

This has been a long road with a lot of bumps along the way, and it is still a long road ahead of us. The biggest thing I am learning, not just in my head but in my heart, is that God is who He says He is and that I can put my hope and trust in Him. I am so thankful for all the promises God makes us about Himself for His children. In times like these, they are some of the only things we can hold onto. Some of my favorites that I have held onto are:

Deuteronomy 31:8
“Do not be afraid or discouraged, for the LORD is the one who goes before you. He will be with you; he will neither fail you nor forsake you."

Psalm 27:13-14
“I would have lost heart, unless I had believed that I would see the goodness of the LORD in the land of the living. Wait on the LORD; Be of good courage, and He shall strengthen your heart; Wait, I say, on the LORD!”

Psalm 116:7
“Be at rest once more, O my soul, for the LORD has been good to you.” (The rest of this chapter is awesome to me.)

O how the LORD has been good to us. Today, I am feeling a little stronger, but still having some soreness and pain in my back and in my left leg. On Wednesday, we will be going to a neuroopthamologist (what ever that is) to have him look at my eyes. We still do not know anything for sure on why the blood clots are in my eyes and if the could be something serious or not. We hope that the doctor will have some answers for us. We still do not have the blood test back from the hematologist; they think it will be a couple more days until we find out anything.

Thank you all for walking this road with Laura and I. Thank you again for your prayers!!!! Please don’t erase this one from your prayer list yet!!

WITH GREAT LOVE AND APPRECIATION
RYAN

1/22/06 Update

Today I had the amazing opportunity to speak to our youth group for the first time. I was able to tell our story while sharing with them the faithfulness and love of God. Also, a video was played of Ryan saying hello to all of them, and thanking everyone for their prayers. They really enjoyed seeing his face. He really misses everyone and cannot wait to get back as soon as possible. It was such a wonderful feeling being back at "home" with our church family. Wow, God has just done some amazing things through all of you. I have heard story after story of how God has used our situation to encourage others, and praise God for that. Our prayer has been for God to use our experience all for good and for His glory.

Ryan and I have had a great day of rest. I finally got a nap. Praise God for Sunday afternoon naps :) Tomorrow we willl get the results of the blood tests. I'm sure Ryan will be on the phone by 8 am because that is when the offices open. Trust me, it'd be earlier if he could :)

Something Ryan and I continue to be reminded of daily is our need for God. We have nothing without Him. There is no hope, no faith, no joy, no comfort, and definitely no healing without Him. I told the students this morning that God has brought so many good things out of this circumstance. Of course, it has been the hardest and most challenging time of our lives, but also the most rewarding. God has become so real to us. He has shown His faithfulness to us in so many ways. 1 Peter 1:6-7 (NLT) says, "So be truly glad! There is wonderful joy ahead, even though it is necessary for you to endure many trials for a while. These trials are only to test your faith, to show that it is strong and pure. It is being tested as fire tests and purifies gold--and your faith is far more precious to God than mere gold. So if your faith remains strong after being tried by fiery trials, it will bring you much praise and glory and honor on the day when Jesus Christ is revealed to the whole world." I read up on how silver is refined. First, a silversmith needs to hold the silver in the middle of the flame, which is the hottest part, in order to burn away all the impurities. The silversmith is to keep his eye on the silver the entire time the silver is in the fire. If the silver is left a moment too long, it could be destroyed. So, how does a silversmith know when the silver is fully refined? When they see their image in it.

What an amazing picture of us and God! Ryan and I have been put through in the middle of the flame, but our faith has been purified and refined as gold. And God has remained by our side with His eyes fixed on us every single second of the day. As Ryan and I discussed last night, we would not trade this experience for anything. Of course, I wish it could have been done through an easier circumstance, but that's not what God intended and He's brought us through, while strengthening our faith and character daily. I also told the youth this morning, I wish I would have realized on my own, without this experience, how big God truly is, and how He is who He says He is. I told them to pray big prayers, dream big dreams because God is BIG and He wants us to ask those things of Him. We have the right to come boldy before His throne (Hebrews 4:16).

As you have so graciously prayed for us, we ask that you would continue to pray for our still a long road ahead. Each day Ryan has gained a little more strength, in which we are so thankful, but recovery after a trauma can take many months. Continue to pray for Ryan's vision and the blood clots behind His eyes. He wants me to make sure you know how grateful He is for all of you, and how blessed he is by you. You are truly loved.

Nothing without Him,
laura

1/19/06 Update

Today has been a very restful day for Ryan and me both. But, we did meet with the ophthamologist this afternoon. He said that the swelling in Ryan's right retina has gone down a bit. Also, he did not see any other spots that have developed on Ryan's eyes, which is a definite plus. We have learned with doctors, sometimes, that "no news is good news".

Next week we will meet with a neuroophthalmologist in Dallas. Our head doctor at Methodist suggested we go see him. But, until then, we have no more appointments. We've counted that we have had 6 appointments since Monday...whew...I'm tired!

This morning Ryan and I read through a Beth Moore devotional called, "Groans That Words Cannot Express". We read Romans 8:26, which says, "In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groans that words cannot express." I know that is how the Lord heard me, through His Spirit. There were times I did not know what to say or how to say it, and it is so comforting to know His Spirit came through for me. This is a part of the devotional that really stuck out to us:

"Imagine this poignant scene. The child of God musters his last bit of strength to collapse before the throne of God. Words do not come--just groanings. They are not his groanings, though they emerge from so deep within, he thinks they are his. The Spirit of God searches his heart, gathers his pain, and lifts it to the Father of all comfort. The Spirit of God, knowing both the depth of his agony and the will of the Father, can bring forth glory from even this. He insists that the Father usher overflowing comfort. He urges the child to let the Father have His way. He prayers for things he could not bear to pray--that he lacks the courage to pray. He prays for glory. How long does the child lay before God's throne? Until strength comes. Until he identifies the heart of the Spirit's intercession for him and can make it his own."

That is what Ryan and I are doing even today. Continue to groan before the Father of all comfort, healing and restoration. Let Him read Your heart.

Please pray that Ryan and I have an abundance of rest this weekend before our next appointment. Pray that God would continue to increase Ryan's strength day by day (He is...He felt a little stronger this morning). Your groans are being heard.

We love each and everyone of you. Talk to you next week.

Ryan and Laura

1/18/06 Update

Today, we met with our trauma team as well as a hematologist. God really is so so good. Our trauma doctor is a Christian. Today he told Ryan to keep reading scripture, keep praying because that was what is going to keep him positive. He kept saying from Psalm 118:24, "This is the day the Lord has made; rejoice and be glad in it". I cannot even express to you how thankful we are to have Dr. Jeyarajah as our head doc! We did not receive a lot of answers, but they are continuing to talk with other specialists, also while trying to discover the problem of the clots in Ryan's eyes.

Continue to pray for Ryan. It is really difficult when he has no concrete answers to hold onto, which causes him to still be a little anxious and frustrated.

Tonight was a sweet time for Ryan and I. We had a chance to read God's Word and my journal entries from our time at the hospital. It was a great journey walking through God's faithfulness and promises because each and every day God gave me scripture to hold onto for that time. One day I asked for God to lay a verse on my heart and not even 2 seconds passed and I had one. I wrote, "Wow, that was quick!" It was Isaiah 43! Great passage! Ryan said that after reading my journal entries and scripture, he was able to gain a little perspective about what God has truly done in his life. It has been difficult to process at times, but God is definitely giving Ryan everything in His perfect timing. One of Ryan's favorite verses we read tonight was Psalm 27:13-14, " I would have lost heart, unless I had believed that I would see the goodness of the LORD in the land of the living. Wait on the LORD; Be of good courage, and He shall strengthen your heart; Wait, I say, on the LORD!"

Ryan continues to express his thanks and appreciation for all your prayers. He believes your prayers and God's grace is the only thing that has got him this far, and that will continue to help through his recovery.

Seeing His goodness,
Laura

1/17/06 Update

I just spoke with Ryan. He's tired but pleased with today's results. Here's the scoop:

First, the orthopedic said his thigh and foot are healing just fine, even a little ahead of schedule.

Second, the pulmonologist said one of his lungs (right) is now completely cleared, and the left one is halfway cleared (top half is good, bottom half is still diminished). But the doc was very positive. He doesn't want to see Ryan for 3 months.

Today's appointment with the trauma team at Methodist has been delayed until tomorrow, and tomorrow is when he will also see the hemotologist -- to see if his blood needs some extra proteins to throw off these pesky clots.

So pray for Ryan's physical strength. And Laura's. Ryan is still worried about his blurry eyesight, so pray for his inner peace. And for the docs to discern a reason for his problems and know how to treat them.

Plus ... he slept straight through last night -- 10 hours. YEA!!!

Let's keep praying,

Paul

1/16/06 Update

Today, Ryan and I went to see a retina specialist in Plano. He believes most of the clots are old and probably from trauma, but there were a few that looked somewhat fresh, that concerned him. He suggested we see a hematologist, which we are seeing on Wednesday.

Tomorrow, we will go to Methodist Hospital in Dallas as we meet with the orthopedic, trauma team, and pulmonary doctor. We will go ahead and stay the night in Dallas for our appointments on Wednesday. Please pray God would continue giving the doctors and specialists wisdom as they define the problem. Please pray for safety as we travel. Also, please continue praying that God would cover Ryan in His rest and peace. As I pray I remember what Paul Basden, one of our senior pastors said a few days ago, "So we're all back on our knees before the Lord ... not a bad place to be ..."

Today, while waiting for the retina specialist, I read to Ryan from a book by Brennan Manning, called Ruthless Trust. There were a few things we thought were significant for us to read. The first was a te from Trappist monk Thomas Keating is, "the only way to fail in prayer is not to show up". I have heard some say, "I just don't know exactly what to pray for" or "do I pray for total healing or just God's will", and I will say there's no way to mess up or fail in prayer. God just wants YOU! That's what Ryan and I are learning. There may be times we do not feel like we have all the faith we should, but that we desire so much to have, and what is so amazing is that GOD KNOWS OUR HEARTS! Continue to show up...that's what God desires. So, please keep showing up in prayer for us!

We love you all.

Showing up,
laura

1/15/06 Update

Well, our day started really early! Ryan was awaken around 4:30 am with a bad headache. He took some pain medication and after an hour the pain had not lessened. Still having the retinal blood clots, we were not sure if this was related. We decided to head to the ER for some more tests. Blake Bolin (amazing man if you don't know him) met us there and ordered a non contrast head CT, an MRI of the neck, eyes and head, as well as an MRA of the brain. This was to make sure of no other clots or any internal bleeding. Ryan was put on some pretty heavy duty medication to help relax him before having to sit in the large tunnel-like tube for close to an hour. Ryan said, "You can't sleep in those things! It has the most annoying sound." Well, he did not have a problem today :)

After a few hours, we found out that there were no clots and no bleeding. Which this was great news! But, the question still remains, "Where are the clots coming from?" We will be seeing a retina specialist tomorrow. Please pray for us as we go to yet another doctor. Then on Tuesday we will be seeing the orthopedic doctor, trauma surgeons along with a blood clot specialist, and the pulmonary doctor. Please pray for strength to get through the long days and wisdom for the doctors as they determine the means of the clots. Also, continue praying for the peace of God to run through every inch of Ryan's body.

This morning before going into the MRI, Ryan and I read through Psalm 116 and he said he woke up in the middle of it thinking about it. Check it out!

Thank you all for your prayers. God is listening and hearing! He's answering too :) Please know that your prayers are being answered. Also, please know that we love and appreciate all of you so much. We could not do any of this without you.

I would like to leave you with, yet, another song given to me by a friend. It's called "This Road" by Ginny Owens:

"A million miles away from anything familiar
a thousand places I would rather be
so I choke back the tears and try to find the bright side
though I find it hard to see beyond my suffering
in my heart I know your plan is so much bigger
but this small part is all that I can see
and I believe you haven’t left me here to wander
still I can't help but ponder where you're leading me
(chorus)
and I ask why this road
why this way
and this load
tell me how far must I go
till I see
till I know
why this road
A million miles away from anything familiar
what was it like to be so far from home
though you came in love
the world misunderstood you
there must have been some days when you felt so alone
but you endured, cause there was joy before you
joy that came because you sacrificed
Since you gave yourself just to spend forever with me
surely I can trust you'll lead me through my darkest times
when I ask why....(chorus)
From here I can not see
why you'd choose this path for me
but I don't have to understand to believe
that you know why
You know why this road
why this way
and this load
you know how far I must go
till I see
till I know
why this road"

Believing God and this road,
laura

1/13/06 Update

It has been one long day. Ryan and I went up to Medical Center of Plano today at 10 am and got home at 4 pm. They did the TEE and it came back looking okay. No hole, no bleeding, and no swelling. They did say that the strength of his heart (on one side) was a bit weaker than the other, which they believe is due to bruising on the heart (from the accident). This was a huge check off our list, but we still are unsure what is causing the retinal clots.

We will be seeing a blood clot specialist as well as a trauma surgeon Tuesday afternoon. This will be in between our orthopedic and pulmonary visits. Again, that will be another long day.

Please pray that Ryan would continue to gain strength day by day especially to handle these long days. Also, pray for a peace that will calm Ryan's heart. As you can probably understand, being unsure about what is going on with your body can make for a scary situation. One more prayer is that we will find what is causing the retinal clots so we can start treatment.

Ryan and I appreciate you more than you will ever know. God has given me such a calm and peace about the whole situation. He's given me promise after promise and He's come through! I trust in a God that knows our bodies better than we or any doctor will ever know. At one time I did a Beth Moore study called, Believing God. We had a 5 statement pledge of faith we were to say daily. Now, I am claiming every last word and I would ask you to join with me as we pray believing. Here it is:

"God, I believe

You are who You say You are
You can do what You say You can do
I am who You say I am
I can do all things through Christ
Your Word is alive and active in me...I'M BELIEVING GOD!"
Habakkuk 3:2 I have heard all about you, LORD, and I am filled with awe by the amazing things you have done. In this time of our deep need, begin again to help us, as you did in years gone by. Show us your power to save us.

Let's believe God!

Still believing,
laura

1/12/06 Update

Keep praying everyone!

Today Ryan experienced a setback in his progress. His vision has been blurry lately, so he and Laura went to see an opthomologist this morning. They found small blood clots behind his eyes and informed them to go see a cardiologist to find out if the clots are coming from his heart.

The cardiologists rans some tests and performed CAT scans of his head and chest. All tests were clean, however they are still need to do some deeper analysis tomorrow. Ryan will have a TEE done at 2 PM tomorrow, which is an indepth look at his heart. They are trying to determine if these clots are from the accident or if they are floating within his body.

As you can imagine, both Laura and Ryan are a bit scared. They did return home this evening after a long day and are hoping for some good rest.

So pause to pray for them -- that the experts would find the problem and treat it quickly and fully, and that Ryan would recover 101% and return to us soon as Minister to Students. And as Paul put it best today, "we're all back on our knees before the Lord ... not a bad place to be ..."

Carla

1/11/06 Update

Today I got to see the outside world for a bit...just Stonebriar Mall, but whatever works! Ryan had a babysitter and it was free...can you believe it? I'll get you the name and number of the person we used!

We have a prayer request. Tomorrow (January 12) , Ryan is going to see an opthamologist due to some blurry vision. It could be from several pain medications he is taking, but for precaution we are going to check into it. Please pray that God would continue to have His hand of protection on Ryan. Pray that we will have a safe drive to Lewisville (where the appointment is) because Ryan still gets a little nervous in the car and rightly so. Pray that God would surround us with His angels as He always does. Thank you so much! We know we can count on all of your prayers.

Ryan and I have started reading a book by Brennan Manning called, Ruthless Trust. If you have never read any of his books, you should really check them out! A few paragraphs of the first chapter really stuck out to us. It says,

"Craving clarity, we attempt to eliminate the risk of trusting God. Fear of the unknown path stretching ahead of us destroys childlike trust in the Father's active goodness and unrestricted love.

We often presume that trust will dispel the confusion, eliminate the darkness, vanquish the uncertainty, and redeem the times. But the crowd of witnesses in Hebrews 11 testifies that this is not the case. Our trust does not bring final clarity on this earth. It does not still the chaos or dull the pain or provide a crutch. When all else is unclear, the heart of trust says, as Jesus did on the cross, 'Into Your hands I commit my spirit' (Luke 23:46)

If we could free ourselves from the temptation to make faith a mindless assent to a dusty pawnshop of doctrinal beliefs, we would discover with alarm that the essence of biblical faith lies in trusting God. And, as Marcus Borg has noted, 'The first is a matter of the head, the second a matter of the heart. The first can leave us unchanged, the second intrinsically brings change'."

My prayer is that though life finds a curvy road and our path's seem unclear, we would continue to trust a God that is bigger than it all. That we would trust in His unfailing love, His abundant mercy, and His forever grace. That without doubt or question we would fall into the arms of a Savior that Has arms wide and strong enough to hold us and heart tender enough to calm all our fears. Trust Him...He is Able!

"But I am like an olive tree, thriving in the house of God. I trust in God's unfailing love forever and ever." Psalm 52:8

Ryan and Laura

1/10/06 Update

Daily we continue to be encouraged by all of you. According to Webster, the word encourage means to inspire with courage, spirit or hope. Rightly so and well stated. We have strength and hope because of your prayers, your hugs, your words of love. Ryan and I have already received so many emails reminding us of faith and endurance and that God will never give us more than we can handle through Him. Please continue to share what God has done through you during this time. We would love to hear it and I know we would be encouraged and overwhelmed at God's goodness.

Here's a funny story...well, it may be one of those "i guess you had to be there" moments, but here it is anyway. Today, Ryan had a first. I was getting ready for the day as the doorbell rang...of course I didn't hear it! Ryan had to pull the wheelchair from the wall over to the couch, jump on and wheel to the door all while saying, "Hold on I'm coming" like 4 times. And guess what....it was a gift for me :) He thought it was hilarious, but it gave him some humor and achievement today! Continue to pray that God would give him patience and endurance. It can get very boring sitting on a couch all day. Don't get me wrong he has leg excercises as well as breathing excercises to do, but those can only last so long. Pray that God would give him a sense of purpose even during this time.

I would like to leave you with, yes, another song. This is a song I sang alot to Ryan while in the hospital. It is a song by Ginny Owens called, "If You Want Me To".

The pathway is broken
And The signs are unclear
And I don't know the reason why You brought me here
But just because You love me the way that You do
I'm gonna walk through the valley
If You want me to

Cause I'm not who I was
When I took my first step
And I'm clinging to the promise You're not through with me yet
so if all of these trials bring me closer to you
Then I will go through the fire
If You want me to

It may not be the way I would have chosen
When you lead me through a world that's not my home
But You never said it would be easy
You only said I'd never go alone

So When the whole world turns against me
And I'm all by myself
And I can't hear You answer my cries for help
I'll remember the suffering Your love put You through
And I will go through the valley
If You want me to

I cling to the line that says, "But You never said it would be easy. You only said I'd never go alone". Oh and one more thing, I just found a quote from that Beth Moore wrote during a time that she would continue to pray. It says, "God, I can't understand why You're doing this. But I know that unlike me, Your actions cannot be inconsistent with Your heart, and I know Your heart is loving, good, and faithful. Somehow, someway, somewhere all these things are for good! If I could just know You better through this, that is all the good I need!" Ryan and I as well as many of you have become more familiar and intimate with our God. He is faithful and true, always merciful and good, so good!

laura

1/9/06 Update

It's me (Laura) again, but hopefully Ryan soon! Well, it was another successful day in the Hairston home. Our nurse came out to the house and taught me to give a shot for the first time. Ryan will be receiving a shot in the stomach for the next month and like it or not, it's my job! Needless to say, he understands that he has to be very nice to me :) Nah, I gave the shot today and he said, "Wow, that didn't even hurt"'. Duh, because I have the special wife's touch :)

Last night Ryan and I had a really neat time reading through different Psalms. During our time at the hospital, I was reading from Ryan's Bible. I told him, "By the way, hope you don't mind, but I wrote in your Bible." Good thing he's a gracious man! I had dated everything God showed me daily, and it was a great time of remembering God's faithfulness.

We pondered on Psalm 9:1-2, which says, "I will thank You, Lord, with all my heart; I will tell of all the marvelous things You have done. I will be filled with joy because of You. I will sing praises to Your name, O Most High." We have so much to be thankful for today. We cannot wait to share the amazing testimony God has given us.

Thank you for respecting our need for rest and relaxation this week. We would still love to hear from you. If you would like, you can email Ryan at ryan_hairston@hotmail.com or me, laura_hairston@hotmail.com. Looking forward to your emails :)

Thankful for what God has done,
Laura

1/7/06 Update

Wow! That's all I can think to say. I stand in amazement as every minute passes by that I am able to be here with my husband today. God has definintely performed a miracle and just blessed us in abundance. God has never once left our side.

Ryan is wheeling around in his wheelchair. Oh, and by the way, it is very cool and sporty (of course, we'd have nothing less). MedCare came out today for the first time. They will be out here on a regular basis as well as a physical therapist. Ryan will be in a wheelchair for a month before he is able to start rehab. Continue to pray for God to use this time to strengthen Ryan. Also, pray that God will give Ryan a peace that is far greater than we could ever think possible. As you can imagine, it can be very agitating being in the house all day, not being able to do much. He will probably catch up on some reading and maybe the day time soap operas (YEAH RIGHT).

We are continuing to process things day by day. As Jim, one of our senior pastors said, "Remember you're running a marathon, not a sprint." It's just going to take time and Ryan does not have to accomplish everything in one day. I guess we're learning PATIENCE, but I don't remember praying for that :) Sometimes we get a lesson we did not ask for, but needed!

As a musician God speaks to me alot of times through song. A song called, "If You Say Go", says it perfectly.

"Your ways are higher than our ways and the plans that you have laid are good and true. If you call us to the fire You will not withdraw Your hand. We'll gaze into the flames and look for you."

God sees the whole picture. A lot of times we question because we only see what is directly in front of us. God knows how it will all unfold and it's going to be glorious. We are already seeing a glimpse of His glory! And can you believe there is so much more? Psalm 5:3 says,
"In the morning, O LORD, You hear my voice; in the morning I lay my requests before You and wait in expectation."
Pray in expectance and wait for the God of all creation to show you His glory!

Laura

1/6/06 Update

Jesus looked at them and said, "With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible"...Matthew 19:26

RYAN IS COMING HOME SATURDAY!

What a true blessing that Ryan and Laura will return to their home on Saturday. They are looking forward to sleeping in their own bed and getting the rest Ryan truly needs.

As you can imagine, the two of them just need some time alone to recover. So....for the next several days please hold back those kind visits and phone calls. I have instructed them to take their staff Christmas grab bag prize of a plastic lightup Santa (which is still standing outside their apartment door) and put a DO NOT DISTRUB sign on him. After he gets a good week of sleep, just give Laura a call on her cell phone before visiting.

They are so grateful and thankful for everyone at this church. Ryan is only beginning to understand the amount of prayer that went into the last few weeks and is just overwhelmed with thanks. They love you all and can't wait to get back and see every one of you. It will be an amazing day when Ryan comes back to Preston Trail.

Keep praying for his therapy and a speedy recovery!

Smiling in amazement,
Carla

1/5/06 Update

Ryan is doing fantastic! He is working so hard and has such a strong will to get well and get back into the swing of things. He misses all of you so much, especially all you youth! He cannot wait to be at your games, hang out, and get back to biblestudy.

Today, Ryan has moved himself to a wheelchair and back to the bed. He also pushed himself through the hallway (not popping wheelies yet...we'll get there). There is a chance Ryan will be able to go home this weekend (KEEP PRAYING). I'll keep you updated on that as well.

Ryan wanted me to tell you all thank you so much for your prayers. He keeps saying, "That's the only reason I'm here". We know God has huge plans in store for us and our ministry and we cannot wait to step up to the challenge!

Again, we love you all so much and God has truly heard all of your prayers. He has definitely done a miralce and SAVED THE DAY! He is the Great Physician and the Great Healer.

A verse that Ryan and I always come back to time and time again through other circumstances is Ecclesiastes 3, "11God has made everything beautiful for its own time. He has planted eternity in the human heart, but even so, people cannot see the whole scope of God's work from beginning to end. "

God is doing a huge work. Some we can see and some not just yet, but He's still working. Through this whole trial, God has never once left His throne. I know that there has never been a time where this has caught Him off guard. He's always there! That is something I hope everyone can take from this experience. God is ALWAYS there and in control. "Be still and know that I am God".

Joyfully His,
Laura

1/4/06 Update

Ryan was in great spirits when Matt, the kids and I went to visit him today. He's been moved to a new room out of ICU! And he was talking, eating regular food and dreaming about going home! His doctors told him if he stayed on this path to recovery he may even be able to leave this weekend...what amazing, amazing progress!

The minute we saw him we were just overcome with how thankful we all were. God has touched his life and all of us . 16 days after his terrible crash, he is sitting in bed recounting all the things he's remembered and all the things he is looking forward to. Yet, at the same time, he is so innocent about what has occurred. His mother, Carla, entered the room just after we arrived and Ryan started to introduce us....little did Ryan realize how close we have become with his mother and just how close she has become to many. We discussed what a tremendous prayer time this has been for our church and his friends and families. And he is so thankful for all of you!

His right foot is in a cast and his left femur is healing well, without a cast. He even showed us how far he could move it, showing us again how far he has come. Today he participated in physical therapy, even able to get to the bed to the wheelchair himself. He also doing lung therapy, breathing exercises to get his lungs back into shape. He's still tired, as to be expected, but his progress is simply amazing. Laura spent the night in a chair beside him and continues to give him strength.

Our staff met together this past Sunday to pray for Ryan and 2006. I'll leave you with a passage I shared that day:

Thank you! Everything in me says "Thank you!"
Angels listen as I sing my thanks.
I kneel in worship facing your holy temple
and say it again: "Thank you!"
Thank you for your love,
thank you for your faithfulness;
Most holy is your name,
most holy is your Word.
The moment I called out, you stepped in;
you made my life large with strength.
Psalm 138:1-3

Amazed by God and his blessing,
Carla

1/3/06 Update

"Well, as you all know, Ryan will soon be moved out of ICU, which is just a miracle! God has just continued to hold our hands through this rough time.

Yesterday, I printed out the website to show Ryan. I read it to him in the morning and he was just blown away. First by the amazing grace and goodness of God, but also by the love everyone has poured out on us. He knows the only reason he is here is by God's grace. With tears in his eyes, he said, "Laura, God is so good." He also kept saying how amazing I am and I said, "Boy, are you fooled!"  God has given us strength that we never could have had on our own.

Ryan has been resting well the past few nights, which is an answer to prayer. He's been having flashbacks and just scary dreams, so please pray specifically for God to guard His mind and that His angels would be encamped around him as he sleeps. He really is in great spirits and willing to do whatever it takes to recover. The doctors and nurses have been so positive which helps him out a lot.

Continue to encourage him because it can get frustrating only making small steps. We live in a "now society" and struggle with day to day improvements :) So, pray that God would help Ryan see the big picture that these little steps are going to accomplish a BIG purpose.

He misses everyone so much and cannot wait to see you. He just cannot do that right now because it wears him out, but trust me, he thinks about you often.

He is just overwhelmed by all the support we have had during these few weeks. He knows I have been well taken care of as well. I could not have done it without you. You are all so amazing and God has just used you in tremendous ways. You will never truly know the impact you have made through prayers, hugs and visits.

I will leave you with a song that says it all:

"The world's shaking with the love of God
Great and glorious, let the whole earth sing
And all you ever do is change the old for new
People we believe that

God is bigger than the air I breathe
The world we'll leave
God will save the day and all will say
My glorious!

Clouds are breaking, heaven's come to earth
Hearts awakening let the church bells ring
And all you ever do is change the old for new
People we believe that"

Love you all.

Amazed by His grace,
Laura

1/2/06 Update

Every day Ryan seems to be improving. He is now eating solid foods, drinking Gatorade, and breathing with just a small oxygen tube beneath his nostrils. Yea, God!

He was told today that he will be moved to a private room on January 3, which is good news indeed. It also presents a problem. You see, Ryan loves to visit with people, but it also tires him out very quickly. And once he's in a private room, there will be no built-in rest times like he's had in ICU. So folks could be streaming in to see him all day long. And that would rob him of the strength he needs for recuperation.

So ... he and Laura have asked that, for the time being, no visitors come to see him except church staff. He needs all of his strength to do rehab on his lungs, thigh, and foot. Once he gets stronger, he can't wait to see everyone. But right now he's very weak physically, and talking drains him most. Thank you for respecting his wishes.

Keep praying for Ryan and Laura this week. He's doing much better! Only God's power and mercy can explain his progress. Remember: our prayers have played -- and will continue to play -- a vital role in the whole healing process. Keep up the good work!

Blessings,
Paul Basden

1/1/06 Update

It's been another good day for Ryan. He sat up in bed and had some "Chicken Express" chicken strips so you know he's on the mend. The nurse made him shave by himself and brush his teeth. He's got a little goatee going now and he even asked me for some gray hair dye so he could look like me! I quickly reminded him that he might be in CCU, but he was still on the church payroll!

Barring any setback he could go to a private room in the next day or two. What an answer to prayer! He's still got a long way to go, but we are greatly encouraged. Keep him, Laura, and their families at the top of your prayer list

Jim

12/30/05 Update from Laura

Ryan is doing even better than yesterday. Still small steps, but they are steps! This morning they took his breathing tube out and now have him on a mask. He may need the tube back in depending on how well he is doing by this afternoon. So, pray for energy to keep us his breathing.

He just needs a lot of rest and relaxation while letting those good ole' lungs heal. I hate to do this, but he will not be able to see anyone until he is a little more stable. You all know Ryan as "Mr. Social" so he feels like he needs to talk and entertain, but he cannot be doing that right now. More important things at hand right now. I will definintely let you know when would be a good time for that because I just know he cannot wait to see you. You can still come see me though :)

Jamie Padgett gave me a verse yesterday and it is so sweet to my heart, I wanted to share it with you. It is Zephaniah 3:17 which says, "For the Lord your God has arrived to live among you. He is a Mighty Savior. He will rejoice over you with great gladness. With His love, He will calm all your fears. He will exult over you by singing a happy song" (NLT). That's what I'm praying today for Ryan. So, please join in with me.

Thank you all for everything. Again, I cannot even tell you how grateful I am for everything you have done. Keep praying because I promise God is hearing the cries of His people. How awesome it is that the people of God are uniting as one! He loves that!

Love you all!
Laura

12/28/05 Update from Laura

First of all, let me say how thankful I am for people like you. All the meals, the hugs, the conversations and prayers have just been such a blessing to me and my family. It is so hard for me to fully express it, but just know that my heart just feels overjoyed by it all!

Today Ryan is doing a little better. We are learning with ARDS that it is a very slow process. Each day is little baby steps, but they're steps. Carla (Ryan's mom) and I were talking about the fact that we are really learning patience. I am so ready for my husband to be able to fully talk to me and hug me and he cannot. I know it is hard for him too. Please pray that God would completely be that for me right now as my husband cannot. I know the Lord is near and He continues to show me daily how close, but please keep praying for that.

Last night Ryan and I were listening to a cd and it has a song called, "Praise the Lord" which is the song I walked the aisle to meet my husband :) The words are straight from Psalm 103 and when it was playing, his heart rate stayed at 103! It was pretty cool...just thought I'd share because I found it really ironic! I would like to share the words to that song, if I may, and when we're back maybe Rod will let me sing it :)

"Praise the Lord oh my soul; all my inmost being praise His name.
Praise the Lord oh my soul, and forget not all His goodness.

He forgives all of my sin.
And He heals all my diseases.
He redeems my life from the pit, and He crowns me with grace, crowns me with love and I'm satisfied.

For as high as the heavens above the earth for those who fear His name so great is His love"

The Lord is in control. I found a letter in Ryan's Bible that I had written a while back. A quote I put on there was this, "Remember-God CAN be trusted and He IS able". I'm clinging to Him and believing that He is so much bigger and greater than I can even imagine! God is doing a new thing and I will leave you with a scripture He led me to yesterday, "For I am about to do a brand-new thing. See, I have already begun! Do you not see it?" which is Isaiah 43:19, NLT.

You are all so loved and appreciated!
Laura

12/27/05 Update

Ryan continues to make additional progress in ICU. His status is much the same as yesterday, but his numbers are growing closer and closer in balance. Today he spent some time with Laura writing on a white board since he couldn't talk. Although this is really frustrating for him, its been really helpful in his healing process.

Each day the doctors take an xray of Ryan's lungs and each day they have reported progress. Please continue to pray that his lungs heal and that he will be breathing on his own soon. Also pray for his leg, pelvis and right foot for their healing process as well. And don't forget Laura and his family...who have been amazing through this entire week.

Laura and her family continue to be grateful for all the support they have received. They are eating meals from church families and enjoying all the visitors. Some family members even were able to leave for several hours, returning home to get a few items.

Keep praying for good things!
Carla

12/26/05 Update

Laura's Note:

December 26, 2005

I cannot believe it has been a week already. It has been the hardest week of my life – but in Christ, the sweetest. God has continued to pour out His love and grace on me. I continue to feel His supernatural power and strength. Also, I have truly felt the cries of the righteous. Continue praying because, trust me, God is listening. God is really using all of you to encourage and strengthen Ryan and me both.

Here are some Bible verses the Lord has laid on my heart, as well as others.
Psalm 41:1-3
Psalm 11:4
Psalm 27:13-14
Psalm 46:10
Psalm 66:8-15
Hosea 6:1-3
Ezekiel 37:14
Read these and know that God is doing a big thing!

One more story . . .  our niece, Alex, has reminded me why we should not fear. That is because God is everywhere and so big. When asked how big, she said, "At least 10 feet tall!" Faith like a child!

Laura

Update on Ryan (Dec 26, 2005)

After several days of ups and downs, Ryan seems to have stabilized the last 48 hours. YEA! This morning the doctors helped him wake up a little, and when he saw Laura standing beside his bed he squeezed her hand! By afternoon he was winking at her! Always the lady’s man …

Despite this good news, Ryan has a long way to go before his health is normal again. He is still in ICU. And he is still using a breathing tube, which Laura said would stay in for several more days while his body is quietly healing. Once that tube comes out, he must be able to breathe on his own. When that occurs, then he will be moving toward recovery in a great way.
Pray for Ryan’s body to continue healing, for his lungs to get stronger, and for his vital signs to remain stable. God is surely at work in this situation, and we are asking Him to bring back to us our beloved Ryan, fully recovered from this terrible wreck.

Laura and all the family members thank you for your prayers and support during their long night of the soul.

Blessings to you in Christ,
Paul Basden

12/25/05 Update

Christmas is hard to spend in a hospital, but based on what Ryan has been through the family is happy to be there with him. Ryan's oxygen levels and heart rate are coming back in balance today. He is still in ICU on a ventilator, but is making good progress. He is heavily sedated and unable to talk, but Laura and visitors continue to encourage him along.

Laura was thrilled with the get-well painted canvas (click here to see) from all of us Preston Trail. "They are so awesome", she told me on the phone. She also loved the dinner from PTCC friends and all the visitors. Even her Aunt and Uncle from Amarillo arrived and surprised them for Christmas.

Although the family is tired, they are thankful and hopeful for another good day tomorrow. Keep praying daily for them and for Ryan's recovery. God is listening!

Thankful,
Carla

12/24/05 Update

Late last evening after visitation hours, Laura received a call from doctors telling her that they would be putting the respiratory tube back in Ryan. This would help get his heart rate and breathing patterns back in balance and reduce the workload on his heart and lungs. He is currently being monitored in ICU and is expected to be in this condition for the next 48 hours. Please pray regulary for his levels to return to normal.

Laura and her family continue to reside upstairs in the hospital in hotel-like rooms. They feel very blessed to be on-sight during this difficult time. They also will be receiving Christmas dinner tomorrow from various members of our church. Laura continues to be brave and strong, almost amazing at times.

Laura told me during our visit today that she is singing to Ryan on a regular basis. In 2000, when they first met, she gave him a CD with her singing various songs and "some rough moments of me playing the guitar". Ryan loves it to this day, and so her family retrieved it from his car. They are now playing it in his room when she is not there.

Paul Basden has given our staff three beautiful psalsm to read during this difficult time. Join Laura and all of us in prayer often, using these as guides: Psalms 34, 77 and 83. "I yell out to my God, I yell with all my might, I yell at the top of my lungs. He listens ... Once again I'll go over what God has done, lay out on the table the anceint wonders; I'll ponder all the things you've accomplished,and give a long, loving look at your acts," Psalm 77, The Message.

Yelling to God,
Carla

12/23/05 Update

Ryan is continuing to do well today, but is still in ICU. He has loved talking with friends and relatives, however at this time it is best if people could WAIT ON THEIR VISITS until he is moved out of ICU. Keep visiting our website and we will keep you posted his progress. His family thinks it may be best if he can get some rest over the next several days.

You can still stop by and visit Laura in the waiting room, just left of the door before entering the ICU. She and her family are usually there visiting with guests and keeping them updated. She has been absolutely thrilled with all the snacks and items people have brought to support them and cannot say enough about all of you. Today she was visiting with Ryan and he told her he was ready to go home for Christmas. He is in great spirits and is feeling positive about his progress.

Tomorrow at our Christmas Eve Services we will have several "Get Well Soon" canvasas in the AMC lobby for people to sign. They will be brought up to Ryan for his room on Christmas Day. Please stop by to sign them tomorrow. They will be available for signing before and after the 3:00 and 5:00 services.

Thanking God for Ryan and his progress,

Carla

12/22/05 Update

Ryan is slowly making progress today, while still being in the ICU. He is using a breathing mask to help get oxygen to his lungs, and his oxygen levels are slowly moving upwards. He was surrounded by lots of family and friends today and feels very blessed. He is even drinking his favorite soda, Dr. Pepper. Laura said this evening that Ryan asked her to come to his room and wanted to make sure that SHE was doing okay. He even told her that he thought they might be there through Christmas. Laura told him that she knew that and thought that despite it, everything would be great. He told her he had a gift for her and it needed to be wrapped. When she asked where it was and that she would get it for him, he said, "I can't tell you, I'll have to ask someone else".

Laura is so thankful for all the friends and family that have surrounded her in the past several days. Keep praying...we hope that Ryan can get out of ICU very soon!

Carla

12/21/05b Update

Everyone,

Today was a long day for Ryan and his family.

It began with a successful surgery on his left femur (a rod was placed in his thigh) and on his right foot. It took only two hours to do the job -- 8-10 AM.

But during a longer than usual recovery period, it became evident that his heart rate was up quite a bit and he wasn't getting enough oxygen to his lungs. So they ran a CatScan on him about 1 PM to find out what was going on in his lungs.

The results showed bruising in both upper lungs from the impact of the crash, as well as a blood clot in his pulmonary artery (the artery that sends blood into the lungs). If that clot were to release and move through his lungs, it could be fatal.

Ryan's dad, a physician himself, took the responsibility to contact a well-respected pulmonary specialist to ask if he would look at Ryan and recommend the next step. By God's grace, this doctor was able to get to Methodist, look at the catscan, see Ryan, and meet with the family by 3:00. He said that the clot near Ryan's lung is the lesser of his worries -- he thinks it is now lodged and will dissolve on its own. But he was worried about future blood clots coming up from his pelvis area and heading for his lungs again -- if that were to happen, he might not be as fortunate as the first time. So he recommended immediately a procedure in which a small "net" is placed in the main artery going from pelvis area to lung area. That procedure occurred successfully and was completed at 5:30.

Ryan was then taken back to surgery recovery room, because there was no room in the inn (actually there was no bed in ICU). When a bed in ICU becomes available, that's where they will move him next. When he stabilizes in ICU, they will move him to his own room. How long will he be at Methodist Hospital? No idea. Let's just say he'll be enjoying hospital food for Christmas this year!!!

Your prayers and love were part of what kept Ryan going the last 48 hours. Keep them up -- as his dad said, "Ryan's not out of the woods yet."

Thankful for God's mercies, and asking for still more,

Paul

12/21/05a Update

Ryan had surgery this morning and came through with flying colors. As soon as he is out of recovery they will take him back to his room. Ryan, Laura and their families have expressed their gratitude for our prayers and support during this very difficult time. Please continue to lift them up to God in prayer and ask him to continue to bring healing, patience, and strength to each of them.

Jim

12/20/05 Update on Ryan Hairston

We thank God today for protecting Ryan Hairston, our student minister, who was in a serious car accident last night about 6 PM on Highway 423 in west Frisco. The wreck was so bad that it took thirty minutes for emergency response officers to cut open Ryan’s Tahoe and get him out. Then they flew him in an emergency helicopter to Methodist Hospital Dallas, which has one of the best trauma centers in north Texas.

The good news is that all of Ryan’s vital organs are fine. Fortunately, the brunt of the collision involved the lower half of his body. Praise God for that!

The bad news is that he has a long list of problems that will need medical attention. Here is what he is facing:

Ryan is in good spirits today, is breathing on his own, and remembers everything – the accident, his car being cut open, and the flight to the hospital. And he is officially open for visitors! If you want to go see him at Methodist Hospital Dallas, here are some things you should know:

      8:30-10:00 AM
      12:30-2:00 PM
      4:30-6:00 PM
      8:00-10:00 PM

We don’t know how long Ryan will be in the hospital, nor how many surgeries he will need to have. What we do know is that he is alive. And given the seriousness of the accident, that’s enough to make us thank God over and over and over.

Pray for Ryan often today, tomorrow, and throughout the holidays. We will provide more updates as we know them.

Grateful to God for His protection,