Dad's
Day
Don’t forget! This Sunday is Father’s Day. Unfortunately
the axiom we joke about around our house (When momma’s not
happy, nobody’s happy, but when daddy’s not happy,
who cares?) has a small ring of truth to it. That is, according
to a group of surveys highlighted in a recent Newsweek article. It
seems that half of America can’t remember when Father’s
Day is. Ouch! Dads are undaunted because 51% of them
say they would like a flat panel TV for their gift this year. The
sad truth is, though, that of the 50% who even know when Father’s
Day is, 69% of those are opting to just give their dads a card.
(Well yippee for Hallmark!) And what’s more, when it
comes to Mother’s Day, givers spend an average of $122.16. Fathers
don’t fare as well. The average gift to dads this season
will cost $88.88.
As I reflect on these statistics I would like
to draw just a couple of conclusions. First, if I have to choose between going
through childbirth and getting slighted on my special day, I’ll
take the Hallmark route every time! (Thanks, Honey, you were a
real trooper with our boys, especially on that C-Section when the
anesthesia didn’t work)
Second, I’d like to offer a little encouragement for fathers
and the ones who love and often have to put up with them. Father’s
are taking it on the chin a lot these days for spending too much
time at work and thus being absent and sometimes neglectful. We
could go into a lot of reasons for this reality, chastise dads
once again, or just plain give up on them and expect things to
never to change for the better. Or, we could try a little
experiment. Here’s the hypothesis (you always need
one of those if you are going to do an experiment). People
tend to gravitate to those places and people where they feel appreciated
and valued.
So for the next couple of weeks try things
like these. Moms
fix your husband’s favorite meal a couple of times. Encourage
him to unwind on the recliner for thirty minutes or so when he
gets home from work. Put a “round of golf” at
the top of your Honey Do List. Kids, greet your dad with
a big bear hug when he walks through the door after work and tell
him how much you missed him. Make him a card out of construction
paper and materials you have at home. He always needs more
artwork to put on his desk at work. Surprise him with a clean
room. These are simple, yet powerfully attracting things
to a dad. Before you know it you may find that he is spending
less time at work and more time at home with you.
Another way you can make your dad feel special is to bring him
to the Father’s Day Picnic at Warren Sports
Complex this Sunday, June 18, from 6:00-dark. We’ll
have fried chicken and sweet tea for everyone. Bring another
side dish with the fixin’s of your choice. We’ll
have a bounce house, a dunk tank for dads, and some special games
for the whole family. It will be an awesome way to spend
time with those who love you most!
Don’t forget Sunday morning either. We
continue our message series entitled Nuts and Bolts:
How Prayer Really Works. Paul is going to talk
about how we can “find
our rhythm” and enhance the value and meaning of our times
with God in prayer. You all have responded so well to this
series. Our growth was up 30% last Sunday over the same time
last year. We might even find ourselves in a growth posture
this summer and as we look forward to getting into our building.
One last thing . . . because of the crowds
we need for at least 75 of you to start sitting in what we lovingly
call the “Mosh
Pit” down front. As long as you are not right in front
of the speakers they are really good seats. If you would
be willing to do this you would be freeing up more space in the
center section for late arriving guests. Who knows some of
them might hear the gospel more clearly because of it and your
willingness to change a small habit would pay big dividends for
the Kingdom!
You all are an awesome church!
Jim
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